Life experiences to learn from

In all the things I've been through or have had people do to me, I have to say that there are a lot of moments that I'd love to have others learn from.
First and foremost, I lost my mother recently. He death was sudden and was definitely untimely. This experience Has to be one of the hardest in my life next to loosing my grandmother (moms mom), and child loss. The lesson that I've learnt would be that mom's are the very foundation ourselves as females. If you've had a lot of problems with you mother, I suggest you patch things up. Because you don't want to one day grow up, and realize that what your mother's told you and wants for you was true. The worst possibilities is when your mother passes away and you were angry or resented each other. That is in no way a happy ending.
Secondly, having children young. I noticed that I walked into my destiny. As a female, having children and a family is a major milestone in our life. My lesson to you all is don't under estimate the single mothers you know. They made sacrifices, and struggle not only with themselves but with other people. We are the strongest people you will ever meet on the face of the planet. So instead of judging the lady on the bus with the stroller, you might want to get to know her she can do way more then you can imagine. It's a super mom thing.
Thirdly, but not least the whole relationship thing. I've known myself to be the girl that chose unwisely. I couldn't for the life of me have a decent relationship. I found out later on that I had to face my struggles and past. I had to fix myself from the inside out. Everybody knows a female that's so beautiful and intelligent and yet always is miserable and finds herself in a ton of trouble. I was one of those. I can't stress enough, that you have to learn to LOVE yourself and accept your past and MOVE ON.
Life is complicated yea, but you can always find a way to simplify it. Take one day at a time. Work through your stress and triggers. Love on your family and friends. And learn from your past, don't relive it. But most of all forgive one another.